Starting a conversation with someone you’re attracted to can be nerve-wracking, but it doesn’t have to be. By following a few simple tips, you can increase your chances of success.
1. Be confident
Confidence is key when it comes to starting a conversation with someone you’re attracted to. If you’re feeling nervous, try taking a few deep breaths and remind yourself that you’re a great person and there’s no reason to be afraid. Also, do not be intimidated by the person’s physique or appearance. It’s your first conversation, right? So, be confident.
2. Smile
A smile is a great way to break the ice and make a good first impression. It shows that you’re friendly and approachable so, wear a cute smile on your face when you want to start the conversation. You don’t want to seem like a bully, right? lol
3. Find a common interest
One of the best ways to start a conversation is to find something that you have in common with the other person. This could be anything from a shared interest in a hobby to a common experience. This might however, be difficult to find out if you’ve not taken out time to study the fellow.
4. Pay them a compliment
You can never go wrong with this. It works like magic! I mean, who doesn’t like compliments? Of course, everybody does! Whether it’s a male or a female, paying them a sincere compliment makes them feel safe with you and that gives you an edge to engage them in a conversation. You don’t have to use bogus words or rack your brain over what to say. You could appreciate their looks, dressing, smile or any cute little thing you admire about them.
5. Ask open-ended questions
Open-ended questions are a great way to keep the conversation flowing. They encourage the other person to talk about themselves, which is always a good thing. An open-ended question is a question that cannot be answered with Yes or No.
Here’s a hint: Ask them how they feel about the recent developments in your neighbourhood (that’s if you stay in the same place).
Open-ended questions are the “What, When, How, Where, Why, and Who” kind of questions.
6. Be a good listener
When you’re talking to someone, make sure you’re actually listening to what they have to say. Don’t just wait for your turn to talk. Do no try to prove a point, remember, you are just getting to know them.
7. Be yourself
The most important thing is to be yourself. Don’t try to be someone you’re not, because the other person will be able to tell. Just relax, be yourself, and let the conversation flow naturally.
Here are some additional tips for starting a conversation with the opposite sex:
- Be respectful: Remember that the other person is a human being, just like you. Treat them with respect, even if you’re not interested in them romantically.
- Be polite: It’s always a good idea to start a conversation with a polite greeting. such as “hello” or “good morning.”
- Be positive: People are more likely to want to talk to you if you’re positive and upbeat.
- Be patient: It may take a few tries before you find someone who’s interested in talking to you. Don’t get discouraged if you don’t get the response you’re looking for right away.
With a little practice, you’ll be starting conversations with the opposite sex like a pro in no time!
Always smile ☺ 